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those we left behind, and the ones who carry on.
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TAPS Archives – Rayford “Ray” William Addington, Jr
Rayford “Ray” William Addington, Jr
Rayford “Ray” William Addington, Jr., age 69, passed away at his home in Boerne surrounded by his family on Sunday, December 27th, 2015.
Mr. Addington is survived by his wife, Martha, and two daughters, Moshelle Carlson of Ladera Ranch, CA and Meredith Wiskur of Murphy, TX. He also leaves behind five grandchildren, Nathan, Sophie, Anna, Avery and Lilly; sons-in-law, Todd Carlson and Matt Wiskur; his sister, Shelley Addington of Dallas, TX; and brother, Mike Addington of Lynchburg, VA.
Ray grew up in Dallas, the eldest son of Rayford Addington, Sr. and Martha Addington. He served two years with distinction as a Marine in the Vietnam War. Marine Sargent Ray “Big D” Addington fought in the Battle of Khe Sahn, Hill 881 South in a desperate 77 day fight where the only way out was to be “Flown Off or Blown Off.” The discipline, patriotism, and servanthood he learned in the Marines never left him, as friends and family will attest. He will be remembered fondly by many as “Uncle Ray”, the “go-to” guy at Reinhardt Bible Church and Christ is Life Ministries, always willing to teach the children’s Sunday school class, drive the church bus to camp, and to lift, carry, or fetch anything needed. He had fond memories of singing with the Firewheel Bible Fellowship Choir (he loved to sing, dance, perform and make people laugh). In later years, he spent his time teaching Bible study to prisoners as a chaplain at the Kendall County Jail and collecting food for Hill Country Daily Bread.
TAPS Archives Loyde P. Arender
Loyde P. Arender
Funeral services for Loyde P. Arender were held at 10:00 AM Friday, August 26, 2016 at Kilpatrick Funeral Home of Monroe, Louisiana with Rev. Ricky Baker officiating. Interment will follow at the Northeast Louisiana Veterans Cemetery in Rayville, LA.
Loyde was born on October 19, 1950 in Monroe, LA to Monroe and Nadine (Sutton) Arender and having achieved his lifelong goals of being a combat Marine, a good husband and a good father, he entered the gates of Heaven on August 24, 2016 in Monroe, LA. He was preceded in death by his parents and his brother, Monroe Dwight Arender.
He was active in community service, especially in service to Veterans. He was Director of the Ouachita Parish Vietnam Veterans Memorial on the grounds of Monroe City Hall. In Vietnam he served as a member of Kilo Company, 3rd Battalion 26th Marines.
He is survived by his wife and childhood sweetheart of 48 years, Sharon Kay Keen Arender; daughter, Annette Arender Little and husband, Paul; sons, Loyde Patrick Arender II and wife, Christy and Brandon Arender and wife, Mindy; grandchildren, Derek Hilton Arender, Madelyn Renee Arender, Ryne Michael Little, Mallory Ember Arender, and Maisy Isabella Arender; step grandsons, Tyler Brown and Griffin Bishop; brothers, Franklin Latheyl Arender, Doyle Isaac Arender, and Steve Otis Arender.
TAPS Archives Bob Arrotta
During the night of 4 November 2009, Bob died in his sleep. A victim of cancer, he was born in Bethesda, Maryland and joined the Marine Corps in 1966. On Hill 881S, as a member of 3/26 Comm Platoon’s Tactical Air Control Party, he was known as the “World’s Mightiest Corporal” due to his prowess in running airstrikes. Bob lived in San Diego after leaving the Marines. He will be missed by all who knew him. Funeral services will be at Arlington National Cemetery at 1100 on 15 December 2009.
TAPS Archives Joe Cote
Joe Cote, Mike 3/26, passed into eternity on 29 October 2015 in North August, South Carolina. Joe was a graduate of Kankakee Community College, Kanakee, Illinois. Joe was in the battalion in 1966-1967 to include the battles in September 1967 up near the DMZ. After his tour in the Marine Corps, he worked for Husqvarna for 30 years.
Joe was proceeded in death by his wife Cynthia Cote and his mother and father Lily and Kenneth Cote, and survived by his brother Kenneth Cote, son Jason Cote and wife Wendi Cote, daughter Catherine Cote, and granddaughter Jessica Hutto.
He had been a dedicated member of the Marine Corp League for several years and was currently Senior Vice Commandant of the Riverfront Marines, Detachment #1132, North Augusta, SC. He was very involved in the Toys for Tots program and other community beneficial programs. He was a loving father, and truly amazing grandfather.
Joe will be buried in his home state, Illinois.
Anthony “Tony” Benedetto
Anthony “Tony” Benedetto, 74, entered into God’s loving care on Tuesday, December 29, 2020 at Samaritan Hospice in Mt. Holly, New Jersey. Born in Trenton, Tony was a lifelong resident of Hamilton. He was a highly decorated US Marine Corps Veteran who completed two tours of duty during the Vietnam War. Tony was the recipient of three Purple Hearts, a Bronze Star with Valor, Vietnam Cross of Gallantry, Marine Corps Combat Action Ribbon and the Presidential Unit Citation Ribbon.
Tony’s desire to love and protect did not end with his tour in Vietnam. He retired from the Mercer County Sheriff’s Department after 25 years of service. During his tenure, Tony held various positions in the department but he most enjoyed his time as a Detective. His hard work ethic paid off as Anthony was the recipient of “Officer of the Year” and several other awards but even more importantly he was well loved and admired by his coworkers.
Tony’s zest for life and helping others did not stop at work. He was passionate about all sports, especially baseball. He was heavily involved in Mercer County Baseball. Tony spent many years coaching his son during Little League and Babe Ruth. His coaching continued with American Legion Post 458 and Nottingham High School. During his tenure as a coach, Tony led his teams to various victories. In 1993, he took the 15- year- old Babe Ruth All Star team to the Southern New Jersey State Championship. Once again in 2008, Tony helped lead the Nottingham High School Baseball team to their first ever Mercer County Tournament Champion. Due to his dedication and love for Nottingham baseball, Tony was inducted to the Nottingham Athletic Hall of Fame. He is often described as a “players coach” and an even better mentor. His influence was felt by many in Mercer County Baseball.
Although baseball was a passion, his first love was traveling with his wife Bonnie along with taking cruises with his family. No matter what Tony was doing, he always found time to be in the sun!! Tony was a larger-than-life character who was extremely witty, always making jokes. His world revolved around his wife, children, and grandchildren. Tony was well loved and respected by many and will be deeply missed by all those who knew and loved him.
Tony was predeceased by his parents, John and Assunta (Lattera) Benedetto and is survived by his loving wife of 44 years, Bonnie (Borland) Benedetto, a son Anthony Benedetto and wife Jaime, along with a daughter, Nicole and husband Eric Skurjunis, six grandchildren, Gianna and Alexa Benedetto, and Jillian, Skylar, Jacob, and Anthony Skurjunis. He is also survived by his brother Joseph and wife Felicia Benedetto along with brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law, Linda and husband Roy Lovett, Rich Borland and wife Maureen, Patricia Cranstoun, Denise and husband George LaFalce, and Chuck Borland and wife Betty Ann. Tony is also survived by many nieces, nephews, and other family friends.
On January 6, 2021 Tony was buried at the Brigadier General William C. Doyle Veterans Memorial Cemetery, 250 Provinceline Rd., Wrightstown, NJ.
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Colonel Thomas Michael Early, USMC, (ret.)
On Monday, November 2, 2020, Colonel Thomas Michael Early, USMC, (ret.), loving husband of Marie and father of Patrick and Kathleen, passed away after a long illness at the age of 78.
Thomas was born on June 25, 1942 in Worcester, Mass. to Luke and Mabel (Hill) Early. He graduated from St. John’s Prep in Worcester, North Adams State College (BS), and Central Michigan University (MA.) He received his commission as a 2nd Lieutenant in the United States Marine Corps in May 1964.
Throughout his long distinguished career in the Marine Corps, he earned 3 Legions of Merit, a Bronze Star with Combat V, a Purple Heart, and numerous other citations. He served with distinction in Vietnam as a company commander with the 3rd Battalion, 26th Marines. Following his retirement from the Marine Corps, he led a JROTC program, taught high school science, and was the director of the Virginia Commonwealth Challenge program.
Thomas had a passion for long-distance running, competing in the Boston, Honolulu, and Marine Corps marathons multiple times. He was an avid sports fan, coaching soccer and track and rooting on Notre Dame and the Washington Redskins. GO IRISH! He was devoted to his family and known for his dry wit, strength of character and loyalty.
Thomas is survived by his wife of fifty-four years, Marie, his two children, Patrick (Karina) and Kathleen, and three grandchildren, Liam, Meghan, and Mikayla.